Staying too long in a relationship

Do you ever feel like you’ve stayed in your relationship too long?

Do you not feel the spark you had for each other?

Well this can happen, and its not happening just to you many other couples are going through the same thing as you are. Knowing when you should leave a relationship is important.

Are you making up reasons to stay together?

Are you staying together because of your family? including children?

Its important that you talk to your partner, about how you are both feeling and if to go in different directs, this becomes harder when children are involved. When children become involved this is when you have to think of yourself but also your children. If they are old enough sit down with them and talk to them explain to them what is going to be happening and work out what the children may want to do.

Dealing with what is going on in reality rather then leaving it because you don’t want to hurt someone is more hurtful on yourself, its important that you are considering your feelings about what is going on rather then dragging the relationship on and not feeling the love you use to have for each other.

MONOGAMY

MONOGAMY: Monogamy is being exclusive to one person that you are currently with. being committed to that one person and that one person only. Monogamy can be complicated for every individual, you need to know that you are able to stay committed to the one relationship and not to anyone else.

HOOK UP: The possibility of the connect has spread past the bounds of school grounds and mixed whatever remains of the social world as another rendition of a conceivable one night stand that might prompt to whatever else. In hookup and one night stand culture, monogamy is not something that individuals can securely expect and should rather be arranged. Hookup culture dialect calls this a DTR – characterize the relationship talk – in which the general population who have been connecting arrange a move to genuine relationship status, which by and large infers sexual monogamy. The state of mind that monogamy is something you need to discuss, characterize, and concur upon implies that, for some individuals, monogamy is no longer the unchallenged, examine standard that it used to be. Regardless of whether these people get to be distinctly monogamous, polyandrous, or something else is less critical than the way that they have a decision they should effectively make.

SERIAL MONOGAMY:A standout among the most well-known decisions many individuals today make is serial monogamy, implying that they collaborate with just a single individual at any given moment, framing one relationship and saying a final farewell to that individual before joining forces again with someone else. The limits between the finish of one relationship and the start of another can be dim for a few people, and it is genuinely basic for individuals to have some cover as they move starting with one accomplice then onto the next.

CHEATING:Is monogamy a chick thing? For a great many years in societies over the globe it has been, and the ever-show sexual twofold standard implies that despite everything it is today. A vital part with monogamy comes the outlets for men to cheat and escape with it (or possibly be excused if found), and ladies to be pilloried. Prostitution has constantly run as an inseparable unit with monogamy, and a “young men will be young men” mentality towards men’s accepted sexual that basically nobody anticipates that men will be sexually monogamous. Ladies, then again, are unquestionably anticipated that would be monogamous in relationship.

MONOGAMOUS IMPERFECTIONS: In addition to cheating, lots of other heinous things happen in some monogamous relationships. Because it is the cultural norm (at least in rhetoric), most relationships have at least a veneer of monogamy. This means that most of the awful things that happen in relationships happen in monogamous families – drug addiction and alcoholism, emotional and physical battering, incest, spousal rape, child molestation, and all manner of hideous events. Again, not every monogamous relationship is a cesspool of despair, but if there is an evil happening in a family, you can bet the monogamous folks have been there, done that. I am not saying that monogamy is evil, but rather I am saying that monogamy is not inherently good in all instances. Monogamy is as open to flaws as are other forms of relationship.

MONOGAMY ISN’T
Are a few people genuinely monogamous, in that both individuals from the couple just engage in sexual relations with each other for whatever is left of their lives? Yes, completely, and some of them are uncontrollably cheerful in fulfilling and cherishing connections. Others are abstinent in relational unions that have lost sexual start yet proceed for different reasons.
As a social establishment, however, monogamy is not what it used to be, with individuals arranging it and after that accepting many open doors to bypass it. Even though monogamy remains the predominant social perfect, it is unquestionably not the practice for huge areas of the populace.

Honest communication 💯❕❕

When in a committed relationship you need to have honest communication and no lying when talking with the one you are in a relationship with.

When talking with your partner you should go through some simple steps of  honest communication

some of these steps are:

  1. be timely
  2. be flexible
  3. be patient

These are 3 of the many different communication skills that I followed in my relationship but my ex didn’t want to follow them

To explain more I read this website to help me explain more on how to have a honest communication

http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-14424/6-rules-for-open-honest-communication-with-the-person-you-love.html

 

All relationships are different

Each relationship is different from each other. Knowing how to get advice to other people when being in a similar situation. But knowing how serious it is you may not know.

But it’s important for yourself to know when your relationship is becoming unstable and when you should take action to protect yourself from anything serious

 

please remember that I’m not a professional and that I’m tell you from my experience and how different my past relationship and the difference between mine and their relationship